Clayton Dexter Domier (Clay)

May 2, 1950 ~ June 17, 2025
Born in:
Mayville, ND
Resided in:
New Braunfels, TX
It is with great sorrow that we announce the passing of Clayton Dexter Domier (Clay), who
left us on June 17, 2025 at the age of 75 after a short, unexpected illness.
Clay was born on May 2, 1950 in Mayville, North Dakota. From a small-town teenage athlete
and rebel to the honorary patriarch of his cul-de-sac, Clay lived a life full of love and adventure.
He could teach you how to drive, give you home-purchasing advice, or build you an entire
kitchen.
His love for nature and being active guided his life decisions. Camping trips, beach days, and
lectures on the evils of littering were frequent. He loved hunting, although he wasn’t that great
at it; he was much better at sitting in his lawn chair and watching the rabbits. In later years, he
found joy in fishing with his son-in-law Rob and playing with his grandkids and great-grandkids.
He also revisited his athletic career by picking up and excelling in Pilates in his 70s, but
ultimately, Clay was happiest when surrounded by family.
Clay married Marlene Smith in 1969 and together they raised three children: Michelle, Cain
and Gina. In 1979, they moved to Corpus Christi, Texas where Clay discovered his exceptional
skill for woodworking. His method was his own: you would tell him your concept, he would nod
and then do whatever he wanted; then he would produce a piece of furniture that was better
than anything you could have dreamed. He used his talents to construct a career as a
cabinetmaker until he retired in the mid-2010s.
He and Marlene moved to New Braunfels in 2010, following their grandkids. Clay’s most
important and rewarding job was being a husband, dad, grandpa, and then a great-grandpa.
He loved his family with everything he had. He always showed up. He went to every single
basketball game for two daughters and one granddaughter. He loved a good prank, with most
of them culminating in his classic Domier giggle. Every holiday celebration was at his house.
He taught all his kids and grandkids how to drive. He played and wrestled with his great-
grandsons. Every family member held a special place in his heart, and each had their own
unique relationship with him.
Clay’s absence leaves a large void in the world that can never be filled. He loved not only his
family; he loved the idea of family. In his eyes, children are the most important thing in the
world and they should be cherished. Playing in the dirt, throwing balls, jumping in the water,
and skinning their knees during adventures: this is how he wants the world to progress.
Whether you knew Clay or not, you can honor his memory by spending time with a child and
not littering.
Clay is survived by his wife of 56 years, Marlene Domier; his children Michelle Domier, Cain
Domier, and Gina Montalvo (Robert); his grandchildren Sierra Pettis (Crystal), Sidney Pettis
(Daniella), and Hayden Thomas (Ali); his great-grandchildren Grayson and Oakley; his siblings
Beverly Bower, Sidney Domier (Louise), Gary Domier (Kris) and Bruce Domier; and his
“adopted” family of the Country Club Circle cul-de-sac.
Bruce Domier
I’m am so saddened and shocked by Clay’s passing. He was a good man from what I remember, because I hadn’t seen him in years, he and Marlene were perfect for each other. Marlene and family my condolences to all of you. Cherish those memories as they will help you thru this difficult time. RIP Clay,you will be missed. ❤️
My sincere condolences, May the perpetual light shine upon him may he rest in peace.
Such an exceptional man 🙏🙏
Sending Hugs & Prayers to Marlene & all Clay’s family🫂🙏💔 May God Bless the memories and give you His peace💞
While I didn’t know Clayton personally, I knew him as a formidable opponent in basketball and football back in the days of Portland Pirates vs Hatton Flyers. He was always a great competitor. Those games were always fun and left lasting memories. To Clayton’s family, I am very sorry for your loss.