Janet Lynn Gallaher

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Janet Lynn Gallaher August 1, 1956- October 19, 2018 Everyone knew her simply as Jan. Her name means “Her Father’s delight” and as He welcomed her into His Eternal Kingdom on October 19 at 5:39 am, surely she also delighted in Him. Surrounded for days by friends and dear family, Jan fought not for her life but for a testimony of God’s goodness, mercy and kindness in the midst of struggles beyond measure. Jan was born on August 1, 1956 in Fort Worth, TX to Wallace G. Holder and Rue Gooding Holder. She was preceded in death by her father, Wallace G. Holder on April 30, 2002, as well as four infant children who did not come to term. Survivors include her loving husband of 41 years, Pastor Dennis J. Gallaher; sons, James Gallaher and wife, Kelly and Joseph Gallaher and wife, Corrie; grandchildren, Carson, Caitlyn, Emilie, Noah and Eli; mother, Rue Holder; sister, Sue Haws and husband, Lewis and by her brother, Michael Holder and wife, Darlene. Nephews, nieces and extended family abound. Her passion and life’s work was to serve in God’s church. There was never a place where her touch and grace was not welcomed. She did not seek success but to hear on that Day, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” To that end, Jan was passionate as well as wholly dedicated to encouraging others with word and deed. Ask anyone. Jan loved Jesus and therefore loved people. Her family was constantly and joyfully front and center. Life threatening illness was always at the door, so Jan determined that serving her grandchildren would be the key to them remembering her. Remembrance not for her sake, mind you, but remembrance for the sake of her love for God. Her greatest joy was seeing them serve in His church and using their gifts and talents to show God’s love to others. She loved wholly, joyfully, and with purpose. Passing down a legacy of loving God and others was always her mark. Jan influenced thousands of people in many countries. Her story of suffering touched so many because it always led to the great grace of her Heavenly Father. She knew what it meant to be judged by others which made her a safe place for so many to come and rest. Her grace was born from adversity, her kindness forged in afflictions, her love for Jesus found in lonely paths that only she knew. Truly, she was chosen by God for a unique and very special life. Throughout this long journey, many people would comment as to her strength and joy in the face of terrible circumstances. Jan would smile and thank, but she knew that it was never her strength, courage, or will that won the day. Jan’s strength resided in the daily and passionate time she spent with the Lord. Early mornings belonged to Him. Her strength was in the Lord. To the end, her family heard her preach this without words by her quiet determination to be with Jesus. If there is a message from her life it would be simple and profound. Jan lived first for her Lord Jesus Christ. She did not seek places of honor or prestige, instead she lived to joyfully obey His command, “Love others as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends” John 15:12-13. That is how she lived, and that is how she died. “O Love that wilt not let me go, I rest my weary soul in Thee; I give Thee back the life I owe, That in Thine oceans depths its flow May richer, fuller be.” –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– Visitation will be held from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM on Friday, October 26, 2018 at Freedom Fellowship Church. Jan's celebration of life will be held at 10:00 AM Saturday, October 27 2018. A reception will be held immediately following the funeral service in the church hall. Interment is scheduled for 2:00 PM at Hill Country Memorial Gardens.

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  1. Jan was such a lovely lady. Her smile and kind words will be missed by so many. She is finally home to rest with her Heavenly Father. My condolences go out to her family. Love from Gail Perry.

  2. From the time I first met Jan as a beautiful, bubbly college student in San Marcos, 1976, I was touched by her compassion for people and her joie d’vivre that never dimmed through the passage of time or depths of adversity. There was always light in her which she shared freely not only with those she loved but also with those who so desperately needed that light. The natural reflection of passion for her Savior and a laser focus on Him and His ways produced such beauty in her that it was always a delight to spend time in her presence.
    We were only in San Marcos for two years, but the mark Noah and Jan each left on us is indelible and the time spent together adventuring in Him has been a rare and precious treasure. She will always be one of my heroes, having lived a life, woven by the Master’s hand, filled with love and sacrifice, courage and tenacity, grace and truth, an indomitable spirit – now free at last. She ran so well and she has won the Prize she fervently longed for…
    With love to Noah and your family,
    Merre Putnam

  3. When I first arrived in town, and was visiting churches, to try to find a place to worship that felt like home, I met Jan, and she was just someone you really noticed, due to her wide and genuine smile. I could see she really had a heart for God, and loved people. Later, in the New Members Class, Jan spoke to us, and would come to visit on other Sundays, and just to say hello. I could see the love of Jesus in Jan; in her sweet smile and in the kind and encouraging words she would speak to and over us as she would pass by, and just touch someone on the shoulder or other tender gesture. She loved people, and it was easy to see she loved her family and God. Pastor Dennis, I’m heartbroken for you and your family, as it was so easy to see the love and bond you shared, anytime you talked about Jan. Likewise, it was evident to all, the love Jan had for you and the family. What a beautiful example for the church, of what love looks like. I know that God is well pleased, and would not be surprised if I meet her again one day, standing next to St. Peter with that loving smile, to welcome us to heaven, as she welcomed us to the Church, and to your home. Thank you for sharing this difficult journey you all have been on, with us. Please know that our prayers go up for thankfulness to have met Jan, and for peace and comfort for you and your dear family as you grieve her loss, but rejoice in her new life. Her soul was so beautiful, and a true blessing. Much love to you all. God truly called home, one of his “good and faithful servant(s).”

  4. Jan’s smile through her adversity is forever imprinted on my picture wall of memories. What a mighty warrior!

  5. Event though we met Jan for only one year, what she taught me personally was how to LOVE others in the midst of our own trials.. not so much in words but in actions… she CARED for so many, LOVED so many… It amazed me to see her and Pastor Dennis visit friends who were in the midst of construction jut to be there for them.. Just to show their support.. she showed me in just a few months what it looks like to love like Jesus.. even just this past week while knowing she was in her last breaths she asked me “ Miriam, what you’ve been up to? I will never forget these words.. she was able to put others before herself. When I’m struggling with my own stuff I truly have a hard time loving on others and she did it most of her life. . I’m thankful to my Lord that I got to meet her and that God would use her to show me and remind me how to LOVE like Jesus…I can almost hear Jesus saying to her “ Well done my Faithful Servant.” Love you sis!! Miriam Heagan

  6. I remember the first time I met Jan at Freedom Fellowship Church. Her friendliness and gracious personality impressed me and I could feel the sincere welcoming words to this out of town visitor. Thank you, Jan, your devotion to God will always be an inspiration to me. Aloha in Christ. William Z. (Bubba) Burke III.

  7. I remember when I heard that Dennis was going to give Jan a vacuum cleaner for Christmas. I felt an urgent need to tell Dennis not to do that. But his response was a wide, confident smile as he said, “Jan was very specific and that’s what she wants.” : D
    I was amazed at her diligence to do all that needed to be done. A “no frills” but gentle, sweet, encouraging and kind sister. She was always down to the business of doing God’s work. An excellent Mom and wife. Dinner was usually a home cooked meal that was served hot and cleaned up quickly to move on to what had to be done next. She was the ultimate manager of the home and the church. If there were no volunteers, she did it all.
    What a blessing she and Dennis have been in my life. When I was young and had to start over after an abusive 6 year marriage, they opened their home to me. I benefited greatly while being discipled and pastored at Freedom Fellowship. I’m now serving as the Director of Operations & Campus Care at the Church at Rocky Peak in Chatsworth, CA. Thank you Jan and Dennis for letting me start over with you and learn the basics of how a home and church should be run.
    My heart is very heavy for Dennis, James, Joseph and their beautiful families. I’m praying for comfort, peace and the wonderful memories to get you through.
    I can only imagine, there must be so much fruit from Jan’s life, testimony and ministry. We won’t know until we join her in heaven and see the many souls that were lifted up and added to the Kingdom because of her faithfulness.
    I can hear our Lord’s words, “Well done my good and faithful servant!”
    I will ever love and miss you, Jan. I look forward to meeting again in heaven!
    I pray for the perfect state of shalom for the many hurting hearts at this loss. May you have peace, purpose and holistic well being. Let’s keep up the good fight until our Lord’s return. Live a life of unity, worthy of the gospel of Christ and do our part to further His good news!
    What a great picture of Jan’s beautiful smile! Thank you, Dennis!
    Love and Blessings!
    Edie and Paul Rossmeisl, Chatsworth, CA

    • Edie, What a wonderful blessing to hear from you. You always held a special place in Jan’s life. She never forgot you!

  8. From Guatemala….Our condolences, love, hugs and prayers to Dennis, James, Joseph and to whole family. We are so sorry, Jan was a real warrior, lovely and beautiful God’s woman. She will live forever in our minds and hearts. We are with you, praying for confort and peace. Ricardo, Blanqui and whole Gomez family.

  9. Our condolences to Dennis, James, Joseph and the rest of the family. Jan was a beautiful instrument of God’s love among us. We will miss her so much! Eric and Monica Hecox

  10. For Noah: a sweet woman named “Joann, Danny’s mom”, called my number accidentally and left a beautiful message. She’s going go “with the kids” and will see you; please let her know she called the wrong number. My sympathies with y’all; I don’t know you or Jan, but she sounds wonderful. Light and love.

  11. Diane and I send our condolences. It is so true, “With Christ in our hearts the best is yet to be”. To go to sleep on this earth only to wake up to praise our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for eternity! Wow!

  12. Jan, what a shining light you were in this life! Your courage, grace, and love will continue to encourage and bless so many in the days and years to come. Thank you for being such a great example of God’s grace and goodness! I am thinking and praying for you, Dennis, James, and Joseph and family! I know God is with you all in this part of you journey.

    Love, Tina Arnold

  13. Dennis, I am so sorry to read the sad news. Please accept my sincere condolences. I don’t know if you remember me; my son used to pal around with Joseph when they were little. I still live in the neighborhood. Having just lost my husband last month, I can relate to your grief. I hope your faith will comfort you.

  14. I have never known a woman or pastor’s wife who has been so consistently devoted to the Lord and to His kingdom…unwaveringly…so faithfully as Jan. The light of Jesus shined through her even when she was going through very difficult times. She never let her pain and struggles keep her from worshipping her Lord who she so dearly loved as well as reaching out to others with her loving care. She made a difference…her life made a difference in more lives than any of us know. Her sweet spirit has made a forever impact on our lives. We pray for God’s abiding comfort on you Dennis James Joseph and families. How tremendously you will continue to miss her; her legacy lives on. We love you all so very much.

  15. Dear sweet Jan, your mother’s Revised Version Sunday School Class at First United Methodist Church NB has prayed for you throughout your journey and although we are very saddened to say goodbye we know that you are , Resting In Peace at last,,In God’s Arms.


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