San Elesar Brenner

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Elesar “Leo” Brenner, affectionately known as “Gibbs” by his close family, passed away peacefully early Friday morning, February 25, 2022, at Resolute Health Hospital in New Braunfels, TX at the age of 51, his husband David was by his side. Elesar was born on August 23, 1970 in San Marcos, TX where he grew up with his family. Elesar worked for The Hartford Insurance Company for 23 years, starting as a Billing Call Center Representative, and quickly advanced into several different Operations, Underwriting, and Leadership roles and positions over his career. His most recent position was a Director of Underwriting Practices where he supported underwriting direction and guidance for The Hartford’s Middle & Large Commercial business unit. Elesar’s exciting career allowed him with the opportunity to live and work in San Antonio, Tx, Hartford, CT, and Charlotte, NC before his final move to New Braunfels, Tx in March of 2021. Those who knew Elesar were also familiar with his passion for home renovations, landscape gardening, and interior/exterior home designing. His last major project was renovating he and his husband’s 1962 mid-century modern home in Charlotte NC that was completed in 2020 and sold in 2021. Elesar was a kind gentle soul who touched a number of people throughout his life and a mentor to many. He will truly be missed. Elesar was preceded in death by his grandparents, Prudencio and Luz Calderon; Pedro Mendoza Sr. and Susie Mendoza. Survivors include his loving husband, David J. Brenner; parents, Pablo A. Rios, Jr. and Esabel; siblings, Pablo Rios, III and wife, Amanda; Cynthia Kilstrom and husband Matt; niece, Natalie Villalobos and husband, Elias; nephew, Pablo Rios, IV; great-nephew, Zayden Levi Rios; niece Janelle Kilstrom, and significant other Richard Hernandez, great niece Hope Anne Hernandez, nephew Luke Kilstrom; sibling Rosie Valle and nephew, Jose “Joey” Valle Jr, wife Mykayla, great nephews Mateo A. Valle and Julian I. Valle, great niece Magnolia J. Valle; and so many other family members who loved him deeply. A time to gather and visit with the family will be held from 6:00 PM to 7:00 PM, followed by the funeral service beginning at 7:00 PM on Saturday evening, March 5, 2022 at the Lux Funeral Home Chapel. All services will end at the conclusion of the funeral on Saturday evening. In honor of Elesar’s memory, instead of sending flowers, the family is asking for everyone to consider to donate to the American Cancer Society in hopes to find better treatments for cancer patients that would lead to a full cure.

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  1. It seemed most apropos to plant a tree. Something alive. Something that would remain alive – to honor my best friend & the love of his life.

  2. David, my thoughts have been with you throughout everything that has happened and they continue to be. Leo fought hard and you did an amazing job helping him fight. He will truly be missed. Please do not ever hesitate to contact me with anything you need.

  3. David, So sorry for your loss. Elesar was such a nice man and a pleasure to work with over the years. He will be missed dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of loss. Regards, Blayne

  4. David, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and I’m hopeful that this peace lily helps you smile at his memory and find peace in your heart.

  5. Elesar was one of the greats and will be missed by so many. David – you were truly the love’s of each others lives – may you find some peace…..

  6. David I was so sorry to hear that Elesar had passed. He was truly a sincere, kind and wonderful individual. He was always willing to listen and he will be truly misses. Always keep the memories you shared as that will help you through these troubling times. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Trish

  7. I was so fortunate to get to know Elesar through our work projects. He was always so kind, positive and a true joy to partner with. May he rest in peace. David, I am so sorry. I truly hope that the many wonderful memories of the times you two shared bring you some measure of peace. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. -Rita Lewis

  8. Elesar was always helpful and friendly. The worl has lost a sweet soul. My prayers for peace of heart for David and the rest of his family.

  9. David – I am so sorry to hear of Elesar’s passing. Prayers for peace and comfort for you and all the family. God Bless.

  10. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss… Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

  11. Elesar will be sorely missed. He was always so quick to smile and help figure out a way through a challenge. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

  12. May you find comfort as you reflect on the wonderful person Leo was and the memories that you built together over the years. Our thoughts are with you

  13. Elesar was a very kind man with a great sense of humor. I remember he had us all laughing with him over learning to drive in CT snow back 20 years ago. I never expected our paths to cross again after the short stint working in CT, but we ended up on the Underwriting Practices team together. His sense of humor always uplifted me when frustration was getting the best of me. David, I am very sorry for your loss. It was clear how much you loved each other, and my hope is that you will find comfort in that.

  14. I Pearlean thought and loved him as my son and my family felt the same way we will miss him dearly.

  15. David: We are thinking of you during this difficult time and sending our deepest condolences.

  16. David, I am so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

  17. David, my sincerest condolences. In the little time I worked with Elesar, I truly appreciated his outlook on work and life. He was such a pleasure to work with. You and he are in our thoughts and prayers.

  18. We are truly sorry for your loss. We at the firm are honored to have met you both. Leo was still full of charisma and laughter. This was true love

  19. Dear David,

    I am so so sad to read about Leo. I was checking mls updates and a new listing popped up on Spicewood. I just read that you all sold a few years ago.

    Please know that I have such wonderful memories of both of you and just hearing Leo’s name makes me smile, and now a tear.

    I know that losing someone you love is very difficult. Praying for you David.

    Hugs,
    Valerie


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