Troy Bearden

troy bearden
Troy Bearden, loving husband, dad, brother, friend, went to be with the Lord July 16th 2020. He was at home with his wife by his side when his battle with prostate cancer became too much. Troy was 84 years old. Known for his quick wit, infectious smile, and his kind compassionate spirit. He loved to crack jokes, always making people laugh and smile. His sense of humor rubbed off on anyone that was near him. Born in Warner OK 1936 to Charles and Frances Bearden who raised their children with a strong moral compass of faith in God, honesty, hard work, integrity, and some old fashioned can-do attitude. This is the legacy that Troy has passed on to his children and grandchildren. And through this same template, Troy was a true renaissance man, in that he had an ability to master anything he set his mind to. Without a college degree, Troy was acting Chief Accountant for the State Hospital in San Antonio, Production Manager with Friedrichs in San Antonio, cabinet maker, restorer of older homes, builder, and manager of Point Venture Yacht & Country Club. Each of his careers in his 84 years were successful because of the very foundation he was raised from. Troy leaves behind his wife and one true love, Helen. He said the moment he set eyes on her he knew she was the one. She was the loveliest woman he had ever seen, her poise, her grace, her smile, and her laugh. Everyone knew them as Helen of Troy. The two of them met while they worked at the State Hospital in San Antonio, after only three months of courtship, they were married on October 5, 1957. In 2019 they celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary. They are blessed with two children, a daughter, Regina Kay Bearden DeLine, a son, Troy Duane Bearden and daughter-in-law, Anessa Bearden. Troy loved his grandchildren and great grandchildren. Any time they came to visit, his face would light up with a smile and the joking around would commence. It was his grandchildren that gave him the courage for the past five years. His grandchildren, Denver Bearden, Victoria Bearden, Katriona Girt, Kirby and husband John McBride, Jason DeLine, Mike DeLine and wife Jill. His great grandchildren Tatum McBride, Saige McBride, Emery McBride and Ruby DeLIne. They will all miss him. We will miss Troy but are comforted knowing that he is with God. He was my North, my South, my East and West, My working week, my Sunday rest, My moon, my midnight, my talk, my song, I thought that he would be here forever, I was wrong. W.H. Auden Troy was preceded in death by his parents, Charles & Frances Bearden, father-in-law, Leonard Hobbs, his mother-in-law, Estella Helen Hobbs and sister-in-law, Betty Jo Phillips. Troy is survived by his wife, Helen, daughter, Regina, son and daughter-in-law, Troy and Anessa, sister-in-law, Ruby McDonald, brothers and sister-in-laws, Kenneth & Juanez Bearden, Donald and Judy Bearden, David Wayne and Eva Bearden, James Thomas and Linda Bearden, and his sister Sandra Spiewak, brother-in-law Dave Phillips, his 96 year old aunt Marie Bearden Borden of Oklahoma, 101 year old aunt Evelyn Bearden of New Mexico, and all his grandchildren and great grandchildren. The family would like to give special thanks to Dr. Sree Daggubati with Texas Oncology, Jeanette Naschke with Dr. Grun, Dr. Patrick Williams and everyone from Hope Hospice, for the care they gave Troy. In lieu of flowers, you may make a donation in memory of Troy to Hope Hospice, 611 N Walnut, New Braunfels, TX 78130 or Texas Oncology Foundation, 12221 Merit Dr, Suite 500, Dallas, TX 75251. Private graveside services will be held at Lakeland Hills Memorial Park in Burnet, TX.

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  1. I met Troy and his wife Helen at the Buttermilk restaurant in New Braunfels many years ago when we took our Mom Clara Kelsey out for breakfast. Troy had such quick wit and always made us laugh and smile! Mother loved having the challenge of a quick come back to make Troy laugh. He was a delight to be around and personally made me feel special and cared for, just like Helen does. Loved seeing Troy and Helen together, they were inspirational and I will treasure every single memory and never forget him. I am so thankful our paths crossed.

  2. Troy and his precious wife Helen were customers and friends of mine at Walgreens for the past 13 years. Have missed seeing them recently and now I know why. Sweetest people ever!! I always remembered him saying you can remember our names like Helen of Troy! Wonderful memories!

  3. After all of these years practicing medicine losing a patient never gets easy. But, I guess that’s the beauty of it. I’m so blessed to be in a career where I can be touched by so many different people. Each of my encounters with my patients have taught me something. Some taught me strength, some taught me courage, some taught me humility and some have taught me to laugh through the hard times. The sweet soul who got his angel wings today taught me all of those. Even going through all that he went through he never stopped smiling. Rest in peace and fly high sweet man. Thank you for sharing your journey with me. 😇💕

  4. Troy was a rare gem. He brought light, laughter and love to those around him. Our thoughts and prayers are with Helen and all of the Bearden family.

  5. Dear Helen and Troy’s Family. I remember at your house at Thanksgiving Dinner and Troy had been feeding a deer for just this occasion. All his brothers would be there and one of them would get it. They told us women and children to be QUITE in the house. When the deer came up there was a volley of gun shots. The deer just looked at them and walked away. Of all the excuses those brothers gave. I have personally reminded them all. Love to you and the family. Eva

  6. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. Buttermilk Cafe Staff

  7. Troy was a special friend and neighbor. Always a sly grin and you wondered what he was going to say next. I will miss him at the Friday morning breakfasts at Buttermilk. Helen was always by his side. Love my memories of our times together and I know he will watch over us on our Friday meetings with a happy grin. Billy Meek


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