Roderick Rubbo

Debbie Weber, Louisville Ohio
My heart is with you Kathy at this very hard time. Your deep ache is a testimony to your deep love. May that love bring you comfort as you hold him in your heart.

Thinking of you all during this time. He was a wonderful person and always a joy. Prayers and deepest sympathies for his passing.

A tribute to Rod and family.
Dear Rod,
It was today that I learned of your passing. I find myself tearful, crying tears of remorse that we have lived too far from each other. But along with this sadness, are the many joyful memories that will stay with me—always. Here are my memories.

Our long friendship started years ago—on the water—2 boats, a wave of hands, a nod that dogs are on board, and the cackle of Kathy’s infectious laugh. There was Jolly, a giant black poodle that stole our hearts. Jolly—a gentle soul that became a friend of our tiny yorkie, Scooter. They were doggy friends. As the years accumulated—Jolly even took Scooter for a walk down the dock, while we giggled at the reactions of other boaters.

These years of knowing each other, included dinners, boating, skiing, enjoying the sunshine, eating meals together, sun-bathing, reading books, and just “being on the water”. Fun times—over and over. I hear Kath’s laughter. I remember your amazing story telling abilities—I was on the edge of my seat—a skill—unparalleled and captivating. And then, Kath’s burst of laughter causing me to giggle. I loved our conversations, because I always seemed to learn something new.

How many boats did we buy and how many boat shows did we attend? A bunch. We had to find something to do during the winter—we were crazy boat people.

I remember we gathered at your house to eat in the winter—all us “boat” people. We played fun board games and ate good food. Those were the best of times. I have photos of those gatherings. It makes me smile.

I remember we went to South Carolina to visit your parents, at their lake house. We also met Kathy’s parents. It was so nice to meet them and spend time there.

I remembered Kath would bring home all sorts of critters from the zoo. She has this amazing gift of connecting with animals—any animal! I wish that I had those skills.

I remember also when Di came into our sphere. She is quietly effective, and immensely experienced in life. She seems to be able to do anything and everything. She connects with people and animals. I respect her abilities. I feel humbled in her presence. I am so glad she was in your lives. A rock. A true friend.

Then, there was the time you got tickets for my friends and I to see the Nutcracker at Cleveland Playhouse. We nearly gasped when we found that our tickets must have been the best seats in the house! Your response to my immense thanks, “Of course”.

During our visits to you in Texas, I felt welcomed, and enjoyed our many long talks about anything and everything. Kathy is such a good cook, yum. And I enjoyed all these belly laughs and giggles while there. It was a much needed, welcome respite from my horribly stressful life caring for my parents.

And Rod—over all the years that you have endured your health issues—it seems that you remained upbeat and took life as it was presented to you. Not easy. Admirable.

And, now I want you to know that Jeff and I will love you forever and ever. You called me just a few weeks ago. When I spoke to you—we picked up where we left off. I am remorseful that I didn’t tell you that we are planning a trip in a few months to see you. It was to be a surprise. I am glad that we had that conversation, hearing your voice, knowing that your positive life vibes were going strong.

I also want you to know that our friendship with Kath and Di will persist. We will double hug them and make sure our friendship endures.

With all my respect & love,
Sue