Shirley (Thompson) Mohler

shirley mohler

August 18, 1935 ~ May 1, 2025

Born in: Bethel, TX
Resided in: Canyon Lake, TX

Shirley (Thompson) Mohler passed away peacefully on May 1, 2025, in New Braunfels, Texas, surrounded by her loving family. She was born on August 18, 1935, in Runnels County, Texas, to Claud and Verda Mae (Yancey) Thompson. Shirley was raised on the family ranch, where she cherished her childhood days on the farm. She attended the one-room schoolhouse in Bethel, which also served as the community church on Sundays, where she played piano for the services. Bright and ambitious, she graduated early from Ballinger High School at the age of 16.

She went on to attend Hardin-Simmons University, earning a degree in Education. After college, she began her journey as a mother, raising her three children—Colette, Adette, and Alan. Following a difficult divorce, Shirley returned to Texas and courageously raised her children as a single mother while pursuing a Master’s degree in Reading from Southern Methodist University. She was among the first to complete this pioneering program at SMU.

While teaching in San Angelo, Shirley met the love of her life, Harris “Grosse” Mohler. They married on June 8, 1967. Grosse adopted her children, becoming the devoted father they had longed for. Together they later welcomed two more children, Rick and Tami, who quickly became the center of her heart. Shirley’s teaching career spanned several states, including Oklahoma, Kansas, Missouri, and Texas. As the wife of a coach and a dedicated educator, she taught nearly every grade level—except Kindergarten—and even taught at the college level at Texas Tech and Sul Ross State University.

After retirement, Shirley joined Grosse in his ministry as an associate pastor at First United Methodist Church in San Angelo, offering comfort and support to many families during times of grief as well as many weddings and baptisms. She was involved in the Walk to Emmaus spiritual renewal movement and participated in one of its earliest walks.

Shirley had a deep love for crafts; especially creating beautiful, hand-designed tapestries that she lovingly made for her churches and family. She was an avid reader and writer; she often crafted heartfelt stories and poems for a variety of occasions and reasons, finding joy in expressing herself through words. Shirley had a voracious passion for card and board games, with favorites including bridge, Scrabble, and most recently, Skip-Bo—where her fiercely competitive spirit always shone through. She was an avid cook and passed on her legacy of cooking and candy making to her kids and grandkids. Some special friends even benefitted from her secret recipes. She and Grosse shared many joyful adventures traveling with family, church and bridge groups.

After their second retirement, Shirley and Grosse moved to Garland, Texas where she embraced her favorite role as “Oma,” lovingly caring for her grandsons, Hunter and Case. Her legacy is one of strength, grace, humor, and an unshakable faith.

Shirley is survived by her children: Colette Singleton, Adette Irish (Kent), Alan Mohler (Sandy), Rick Mohler (Midge) and Tami Monroe (Mark). Grandchildren: Cari Bixler, Brandon Irish, Carody Irish, Chutney Mohler, Riley McGovern, Natalie McGovern, Hunter Monroe and Case Monroe; great-grandchildren: Halen & Brianna Bixler. She also is survived by a sister, Nancy Baker and many, many nieces and nephews. She is preceded in death by her husband Grosse, her parents, her brothers Claude Thompson and Robert “Bob” Thompson, and Sister-in-law Beppo Speck and husband Denny Ray.

She will be remembered by her infectious smile and well as a devoted wife, loving mother, caring grandmother, and faithful servant to others. A memorial service will take place on Thursday, May 8 at 11 AM at First United Methodist, New Braunfels. A commitment of ashes/celebration of life will take place on May 18, 2 PM at First Methodist, San Angelo in the Heritage Hall. Our family would like to say a special thanks to the Moore family with Dignity Care for their compassionate love & attention and New Braunfels Hope Hospice who lovingly cared for Shirley over the past year.

Services

Memorial Service: Thursday, May 8, 2025 11:00 am - 12:00 pm

First United Methodist Church
572 W. San Antonio St.
New Braunfels, TX 78130


Celebration of Life: Sunday, May 18, 2025 2:00 pm

Room: Heritage Hall

First Methodist Church
37 E. Beauregard
San Angelo, TX 76903

325-655-8981

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  1. Our deepest condolences on your loss! Aunt Shirley was a woman like no other and she will be greatly missed. Love and prayers to you all!

  2. I will always remember Mrs. Mohler as one of my favorite teachers I had at Saegert Junior High in Seguin. Prayers for you, Adette and the rest of your family.

  3. Aunt Shirley was such a an inspiration. He encouraged me to go back to school and become a teacher and I’m so glad she did. She will certainly be missed

  4. So many memories of spending time with Shirley and Grosse at Sierra Vista UMC. They were always ready to pitch in to help me with the youth ministries. Remembering one special youth camping trip that included: locking keys in the trunk of the care, a skunk in one of the tents, and a rogue group of youth floating so far down the river that someone had to drive down to pick them up! Fun times!

    Shirley gave all of herself to those she encountered in her life’s journey. She leaves a legacy of love, faith and service to others. Unfortunately, I cannot attend either service due to previous commitments. You are in my prayers.

  5. During my college years, Shirley was like a second mother to me. She welcomed me into her life with open arms and treated me as if I were one of her own. Her home was a place of comfort and warmth — a refuge from the chaos of college life where we were always fed, heard, and loved. Whether we came with wild stories or empty stomachs, Shirley was always there, offering her unwavering care and kindness.
    She was a wonderful woman, full of deep compassion for those she loved and an unshakeable faith that guided her every step. Her love didn’t stop at her own children; it extended to anyone lucky enough to know her. The way she loved and nurtured others lives on in her children and grandchildren — a true legacy of grace and sincerity.
    Anyone who knew Shirl knew what it felt like to be genuinely cared for. Her presence was a gift, and her memory will forever be a blessing.
    May she rest in eternal peace with Grosse, reunited in love and light. Love to all the family.

  6. We were only with Shirley a few times but she was such a kind, engaging lady, who put us right at ease. Tami, the loss of a mother is like nothing else in this world, but the memories you have with your mom, I pray, will sustain you through this difficult time. God Bless.

  7. Praying for your peace and comfort. Although I didn’t know your mother personally, I do know she raised an amazing daughter and I have no doubt she was proud of you and your family. Blessings to you all!

  8. I’m so sorry , Adette, she was a wonderful lady. You and your family are in my prayers.

  9. My husband, Paul, and I were Oakridge neighbors of Shirley and Grosse and enjoyed playing “42” with them. When they moved from Oakridge, Shirley very generously offered me one of her special crosses and I have had it hanging in our bedroom ever since that time. Every time I look at it, which is often, I remember the sweet people that we so enjoyed as neighbors. We had many common interests and loved getting to know them. One sweet thing that happened when all of the Oakridge Daytimers first met Shirley was that her son-in-law, Mark, brought her to her first meeting with us. I just thought this was the dearest thing.
    Our thoughts are with all of the family as I know how she will be missed by all.

  10. I met Shirley when I first joined First Untied Methodist /Garland. I joined the Koinonia SS class she & Grosse were members . She always made me feel so welcomed with her warm smile. Everybody thought the world of both of them. After reading her obit I realized that behind her warm & gentile smile was a very strong woman who accomplished much in her lifetime. She left a great legacy behind.

  11. It makes me sad that I can’t be there for Shirley celebration. My heart is heavy for you all but we all know that she is in the place where she wants to be rejoicing with the people she loves. Blessings to you all.😇🙏

  12. Mrs. Mohler was an inspiration to me when I was growing up in Mertzon. She had a heart of gold and seemed to have enough love to share with everyone she meets. She is surely going to be missed.
    This saying that I heard over the years is fitting and worth sharing.
    As we morn the loss of a loved one,
    Heaven rejoices, for another angel has come home.
    May God’s angels of comfort be with with the Mohler family and friends in this time of loss.


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